Someone cue up “Good Vibrations” by The Beach Boys — Choosing a vibrator can be intimidating for the absolute beginner. Just take one look at any sex toy website and I dare your timbers not to shiver as you wonder what all those little (and not so little) doohickies do. I mean, have you ever seen a double-penetration rabbit vibrator…

And which foods make us feel the most frisky? — Your toes are curling. You’re throwing your head back in ecstasy and licking your lips. Your senses are on fire and you feel like you’ve been transported to another plane. There may even be a moan or two. You’re in utter bliss. Now, am I talking about a sexual encounter…

Our moms were wrong this whole time… — If you’re a gamer, then you’re probably familiar with the stigma that comes along with being someone who enjoys playing video games. And you’ve probably heard at least one of the following statements: “Video games will rot your brain!” “Wouldn’t your time be better spent doing something more productive like…

And you may have been too… — It’s not as scandalous as it sounds, but only because it’s so normalized in our society. Because my sexuality was assumed from birth, it took me 30 years to realize that I was queer the whole time. Allow me to take you through this three-decade-long struggle fest. …

I was a lifelong card-carrying people pleaser. I remember as a kid bending over backward for anyone around me who seemed even the slightest bit upset about anything. This was especially if I was the reason for the upset, but still, even if I wasn’t. …